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Loving what you see in the mirror

2/5/2014

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This is a picture of my Granny, snapped sometime in the 1950s. She would have been in her mid to late 60s then -- just a few years older than I am now. 

Meta Foth wasn't a beauty by today's standards, was she? Overweight from all that good German food, wearing powerful glasses to make up for the removal of lenses clouded by cataracts, and owning a "house dress" wardrobe tiny enough to fit into the little closet in her bedroom, right next to mine.

She was no great genius, as far as I know. She had run a florist shop with her husband in their native Germany, and they opened another here in Plymouth, Wis., after immigrating to the Land of Opportunity in the 1920s. But by the time I knew her, she was living with us in Green Bay. She liked her soap operas and her afternoon naps, and greatly enjoyed her weekly bus trips downtown to the restaurant on the top floor of Prange's department store. She was somebody there; the waitresses knew her name (Granny, not Meta) and on those glorious occasions when she took me along, I could tell that they all liked her very much.  

I don't remember her having a great sense of humor, or being one to roll around on the floor to play with her grandkids, either. She was old, after all.

But oh, how I loved her. 

And love her still, of course. She left this earth in 1973, having already buried three of her four children. But I can't wait to see her again in heaven, healthy and happy and finally being every bit as important as the next person, because she is, like everyone else there, a child of the King.

In the meantime, I look in the mirror and see signs of her there, as well as of my dad, one of the three children she buried. It reminds me of the most wonderful childhood, and the most wonderful parents and Granny, anyone could ever want. It's pretty hard to get too upset about wrinkles or jowls or bags when they all point to such happiness long ago -- and, even better, to future joy forevermore. 

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Darlene Schreiner link
2/5/2014 09:04:32 pm

I so enjoyed reading about grandma...She reminds me of mine. I little Italian lady. I don't think it was uncommon for people of that generation to have much of a sense of humor. Such wonderful memories you have...Look at what you have learned from her...How she molded you without even knowing it..The one thing about aging is we remember the people in our past and realize how much of an influence they were. Thanking God for our age and even more things to thank Him for...
Love you Friend--Have a Blessed Day

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Kitty Foth-Regner link
2/5/2014 09:11:39 pm

So right, Darlene. As we gain the perspective of age, we begin to understand the importance of the people who were a huge influence on us and yet whom we might have taken for granted. And we may perhaps be surprised at the people who seemed so important back in the day, and ended up being insignificant in our lives.

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Jeanne
2/6/2014 01:12:21 am

Oh...I'm teary-eyed reading about your Granny. We called ours Nanna who came from Glasgow, Scotland. She had eight or nine children...not sure..My dad was one of them. She was a Christian lady along with her husband, Grampa to us. My father was very good to them. Out of all the children he did for them what they needed back then.

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Kitty Foth-Regner link
2/6/2014 01:34:09 am

And your comment reminds me once again, Jeanne, of the last stanza of a favorite song -- "Beyond the sunset, o glad reunion with our dear loved ones who've gone before. In that fair homeland, there'll be no parting. Beyond the sunset, forevermore!"

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    Foth-Regner

    I'm a follower of Jesus Christ, a freelance copywriter, a nursing-home volunteer, and the author of books both in-process and published -- including
    Heaven Without Her.

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