Just heard the woman behind National Grandparents Day on the radio and she mentioned these tips on her web site. Excellent suggestions across the board!
DO
Learn something about your prospective friend before visiting: interests, background, limitations and needs.
Touch and hug. Physical touch can go a long way toward letting the resident know you care.
Respect confidence. Keep private conversations private
Be a good listener. Your friend may often have no one else who spends time to talk.
Keep promises. Be careful what you promise. Never say anything unless you mean it.
Be conscientious about meeting your scheduled visits.
Encourage friendship among the residents.
Be gentle, kind and sincere.
Respect privacy. Knock before entering a room.
Remember that residents are adults and should be treated as such. Accept and respect each resident as a unique individual, regardless of mental or physical condition.
Remember that you are a vital part of the community; so is the resident.
DON'T
Be a clock-watcher while visiting. Quality, not quantity of time is important.
Feel obliged to solve the personal problems of the resident. Just being there to listen and empathize is important.
Let the resident dwell on negative feelings. Allow them to express themselves, then move on to a positive activity.
Bring food items for the resident before clearing it with the activity director or nurse.
Attempt to give nursing care or perform duties of paid staff such as lifting or transferring.
Thanks to the folks at National Grandparents Day!
DO
Learn something about your prospective friend before visiting: interests, background, limitations and needs.
Touch and hug. Physical touch can go a long way toward letting the resident know you care.
Respect confidence. Keep private conversations private
Be a good listener. Your friend may often have no one else who spends time to talk.
Keep promises. Be careful what you promise. Never say anything unless you mean it.
Be conscientious about meeting your scheduled visits.
Encourage friendship among the residents.
Be gentle, kind and sincere.
Respect privacy. Knock before entering a room.
Remember that residents are adults and should be treated as such. Accept and respect each resident as a unique individual, regardless of mental or physical condition.
Remember that you are a vital part of the community; so is the resident.
DON'T
Be a clock-watcher while visiting. Quality, not quantity of time is important.
Feel obliged to solve the personal problems of the resident. Just being there to listen and empathize is important.
Let the resident dwell on negative feelings. Allow them to express themselves, then move on to a positive activity.
Bring food items for the resident before clearing it with the activity director or nurse.
Attempt to give nursing care or perform duties of paid staff such as lifting or transferring.
Thanks to the folks at National Grandparents Day!
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